Question: is the "natural" version of yourself always the goal? Should we always be trying to go for "me but better"? What if the "me" that we were born with doesn't really feel like "me", even once it's "better"? Case in point: I am a natural blonde... dark blonde, but definitely blonde nonetheless (my eyelashes are practically clear. fun. not.) I do NOT feel like that in ANY way reflects me, though. To such a degree in fact, that even after four months with my "natural" colour, when a girlfriend dyed her hair dark, my first reaction (jokingly) was "Copycat!" Only to realize that she WASN'T copying me. At all. (Reacting to my incessant goading, maybe. Copying, no.) So, you know what? I don't care if I have to ALWAYS colour in my brows and lashes. Or if it makes me look more "harsh" or pale. I feel SO much more comfortable. So I'm wondering: are there things YOU do that you KNOW might not be the most pretty or flattering or whatever, but you do anyways because they're YOU? Anyhoo, here's a pic of my new mane (full disclosure, though, it's MUCH inkier in real life, and not red at all... too bad... kind of.)